穆斯林教育|當你向先知默罕默德ﷺ伸出求助之手 (翻譯來自YAQEEN INSTITUE)
"Meeting Muhammad ﷺ (齋月特別系列)" 由YAQEEN INSTITUE出品,為2021年齋月的特別系列;延續了前兩部專輯(第一輯以“真主喜悅......”為主題,第二輯以“天使”為主題)製作優良、老少咸宜的傳統,是這個時代不可多得的作品,該系列以積極的態度討論了穆斯林社群如何應對誤解和偏見,以及怎樣塑造如先知ﷺ一樣的完美人格這一宏觀主題。
Imam Ibn Taymiyyah Rahimahullah, he said that, "Even your shadow leaves you in the dark." And we feel that, at times when we're most in need, that the people that we thought we could count on are not there. And that drives you to Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la, that drives you to call upon Allah. And hopefully it causes you to reflect in a way that you don't abandon people, the way that you felt abandoned in your time of need. That you will rise to the occasion to be there for people.
伊玛目伊本·塔伊米亚·拉希穆拉说:“即使是自己的影子,也会在黑暗之中离我们而去。” 我们常会感受到,在那些我们最需要帮助的时候,我们原以为可以依靠的人却不在那儿。 然后你会转而向真主,呼唤真主(的援助)。令人倍感希望的时,你开始反省不再忽略别人的求助,因为你曾经感受过孤立无援时的绝望。你会在人们有需要时挺身而出。
And one thing about the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam is the way he made you feel and the attention that he gave you, and the way that he looked at you, and the way that he joked with you; all of that was there
有关先知ﷺ,(我们知道的)是他ﷺ使你感受到帮助的方式,他ﷺ所给予的关注,他ﷺ关注你的方式,以及他ﷺ和你开玩笑的方式,所有的一切都陪伴着你
but what was also there was that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would not leave you in your time of need, even if his need was greater than yours.
还有就是,先知ﷺ不会在你需要援手时离你而去,即使实际上他ﷺ比你更需要援手。
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You find this as a trait of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, in Mecca, even under persecution, right? Where this man from afar comes to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam to complain to him about a debt that was owed to him from the same people that were oppressing the Prophet allAllahu Alaihi Wasallam.
你会发现这是先知ﷺ的特质,因为在麦加时期,即使处于迫害之下的他ﷺ仍是如此。当时有个远方的人前来找先知ﷺ,向他抱怨起一位欠他债务的人,而这个人正巧是迫害先知ﷺ的人。
And the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam takes this man who he doesn't even know, to the door of Abu Jahl, who he knew very well, who used to torture the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, and murder his companions, and demand that Abu Jahl pay the man back.
先知ﷺ仍然把这个他素不相识的人带到阿布贾哈尔的门口;先知ﷺ跟阿布贾哈尔很熟,而阿布贾哈尔却是那个折磨过先知ﷺ的人,而且他还杀害了先知ﷺ的多个同伴,但他ﷺ仍然要求阿布贾尔哈偿还该人债务。
So how was it then for people, that knew the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, when you had established a relationship with him?
那么,对于与先知ﷺ认识的人呢,当你与他ﷺ已经建立联系之后,情况又何何呢?
First and foremost, Jabir radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu says the the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was never asked for anything to which he responded no. The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would always do something. He would always say something, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam.
首先,贾比尔(愿主喜悦之)传述说,先知ﷺ从来没有对别人所提的要求说过“不”。他ﷺ绝对会做点儿什么。他ﷺ总会说点什么(安慰的话)。
Now, he had to apportion the attention that he gave to certain things, but the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam never fully dismissed the person.
即使,他ﷺ不得不因此而从专注的事情上分身出来(回应别人的要求),他ﷺ也从来没有不耐烦地草草打发那个人完事。
And that starts off, by the way, with his charity. And even if a person took something from the the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam in a harsh manner, the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam did not respond in like manner.
顺便说一下,这源于他ﷺ的慈善之心。即使有人粗鲁的从先知ﷺ那里夺走了什么,他ﷺ也从不会以类似恶劣的方式来回应。
Anas radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu says, I was walking with the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam one time. And he was wearing a mantle of najran. with a thick border.
艾乃斯(愿主喜悦之)传述说,我有次和先知ﷺ同行。 他ﷺ穿着一件领边儿很厚的袍子。
So he had this garment with a very thick border and this bedouin man came to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, and he started to pull at that mantle so violently that he left marks on the neck of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam.
他ﷺ的那件衣服边领边很厚,而一个贝都因人来到先知ﷺ身边,就开始非常暴力地拉扯那件袍子,以至于在拉扯时,先知ﷺ的脖子上被勒出了血痕。
And he was saying a'tuni mim a'taqAllah, give me from what Allah gave to you. And he said that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he turned to him, he smiled at him.
他嘴里还嘟囔着,把真主给你的好东西送我吧。他那样叫着。这时先知ﷺ转向他,对他微笑。
And then the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam simply took off that burdh, that mantle, and he gave it to the man, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam
然后,先知ﷺ简单地脱下了那件袍子,并把它递给了那个人。
And on top of that, Anas radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu said, he ordered for him a portion of the sadaqah, a portion of the charity. So if someone asked the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam #as sa'il# the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would give, and that was not always monetary.
最重要的是,艾乃斯(愿主喜悦之)说,他ﷺ为自己预备的是一份捐献,一份慈善。 因此,如果有人向先知ﷺ索取什么,先知ﷺ就会给他,当然那并不总是财物之类的。
The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would intervene on behalf of anyone that asked for his intercession.
先知ﷺ也会代表那些请求他ﷺ仲裁的人去调解矛盾。
We already mentioned that, especially with the orphans, the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would intervene on their behalf for anything, because they were the most susceptible to exploitation. The smallest disputes, the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would be brought in and he would intervene, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam.
我们已经提到过,先知ﷺ会代表,特别是代表孤儿们,来调解大小事务,因为他们才是最易受到剥削的人群。哪怕最小的纠纷,先知ﷺ也会介入,并参与调解。
If there was a territory dispute between neighbors about where a garden starts or finishes, the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would intervene, and he'd try to make peace between the neighbors.
如果邻居之间发生了宅院的边界争议,比如园子从哪里开始,从哪里结束等,先知ﷺ也会参加调解,他ﷺ也会尽力使邻里和睦。
If you had a debt that you needed to be paid, if the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam could not pay the debt on your behalf, the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would go to the one that you owed the debt to, and he would encourage him to be lenient towards you.
如果你有债务需要债还别人,而先知又ﷺ不能代你偿还的话,先知ﷺ会找到债权人,劝他对你再行宽限。
If you needed to get married, the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would look for a spouse for you.
如果你想要结婚,先知ﷺ会帮你寻找(合适的)对象。
If you had a marriage dispute, the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would try to help you in your marriage dispute.
如果你有婚姻纠纷,先知ﷺ会尽力帮你解决。
And these are, again, with people that were not considered from the nobility of Medina, or people that are famous in the seerah.
而且,这些(来寻求帮助的)人,严格意义上来讲,都不算麦地那的地位高贵之人,亦非江湖名流。
These are just people that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam saw as his brothers and sisters in need. And he always responded to the call, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, and he taught and lived this as a form of worship.
他们只是一些在先知ﷺ看来是困难之中的兄弟和姐妹们。他ﷺ总是有求必应。他ﷺ也言传身教,以身作则,将其形成崇拜真主的一种形式。
#Wala'in amshi ama akhil nifi haja ahabul ilaya min in a'taqifa fi hadhil masjidi shahra# for me to go out there and to walk with my brother in his hour of need is more beloved to me than doing i'tikaf, than secluding myself in this masjid, meaning the masjid of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, for an entire month.
“对我ﷺ来说,当我ﷺ的兄弟需要帮助的时候,去他那里并陪他一起走走,这比我在清真寺整月静坐(坐静)更贵重。”
Think about that.
你可以想一下这些话的意义。
And one of the beautiful descriptions of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam in that regard is the way that he would do so. Abdullah ibn Awf radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, he says #wala ya' nafu an yamshi amal amralati wal miskeen fa yaq diya lahul haaja# that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was not too proud to be seen walking with the widow, and walking with the orphan, walking with the poor person; all the way until he fulfilled their need.
关于这个方面,还有一次对先知ﷺ的优美描述便是,他ﷺ乐意这样做(而非沽名钓誉等)。阿卜杜拉·本·奥夫(愿主喜悦之)传述说,先知ﷺ并没有只是因为被看到与寡妇同行,与孤儿同行,与穷人同行,而沾沾自喜。(相反)他一直这样做着,直到他ﷺ满足了别人的需求。
So you could see the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam as a common sight in Medina carrying someone's load.
因此,你可以见到先知ﷺ在麦地那只是一个普通人的形象,因为他ﷺ的肩头常常帮别人扛着东西。
You could see the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam assisting the elderly woman to her home to carry her groceries from the marketplace.
你可能会看到先知ﷺ在帮助一位老妇人扛着一袋从市场上购置的杂货回家的场景。
You could see the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam doing all of these tasks that were considered low for the lowest person in Medina.
你可能会看到先知ﷺ所做的这些事,都是些被看作是麦地那地位极低之人所行的低等事务。
But the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was honored to do them.
但是先知ﷺ做这些时,却感到很荣幸。
And one of the most beautiful narrations in this regard, and subhanAllah, we often hear this narration paraphrased, but really the context of this and the response of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam is just so beautiful and tells you so much about him, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam.
有关于这个方面,还有一段最感人的传述是,赞主清绝,我们也经常听到这段传述的演绎,但实际上,这段传述的背景故事和先知ﷺ的当时的回应是那样的优美,也向你更多地展示了他ﷺ的另一面。
Anas radiAllahu Anhu says, there was this woman, #kaana fi aqbiha shay#, she had a mental illness and that's significant, right? That she came to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, and she had a mental illness, and the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam could have easily dismissed her, right? And she comes to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and she says, ya Rasullilah, #inna li ilayka haaja#, I need you, ya Rasullilah, I need something from you.
艾乃斯(愿主喜悦之)说,有一个女人,她患有一些精神上疾病,那是很明显的,对吧?那个女人来找先知ﷺ,而因为她有精神疾病,先知ﷺ原本可以轻易地打发走她,对吧?(但没有)她找到先知ﷺ,说,真主的使者ﷺ啊,我需要您(的帮助),真主的使者啊,我需要得到您的帮助。
You know how the the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam responds to this woman?
你知道先知ﷺ是如何回应这个女人的吗?
He responds with such love and such attention. He says, #yaa umm fulan, khudi ay turuqu shi'di faqumu fihi hata uqu ma'aqi#, he said, oh, mother of so-and-so, pick any place in Medina, choose any path that you want me to be in, and I will go exactly where you call me to. Call me to any place, call me to any task, and I will go there with you, #fatan tariqu bihi hay tu sha'at# she would take the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam wherever she wanted in Medina.subhanAllah, how beautiful is that?
他ﷺ回应时,满是爱怜,满是关心。他ﷺ说,哦,某某人的母亲啊,您说个麦地那的地方吧,您想让我去哪儿,走哪条路,我都会按您说的照做。不论去哪,不论做什么,我都会陪您去。(想一下)她(一个精神疾病患者)可以要求先知ﷺ跟她去麦地那的任何地方,那个画面多么感人,对吧?
The most important man in society, and this woman could come to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and she could say to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, I wanna go here, I wanna go here, and the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would go with her all over Medina to do whatever she needed, and not once did the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam remove that comforting smile from his face, or make her feel like she was insignificant, or she was a burden upon him.
他ﷺ可是当时那个社群里那个最高贵的人ﷺ啊,而这个(患有精神病的)女人可以来找先知ﷺ,她还可以对他ﷺ说,我想去这儿,我想去那儿,而先知ﷺ都会陪着她在麦地那城里去做她想做的事。而这个期间,先知ﷺ那令人抚慰的微笑,一次也未从他ﷺ的脸上褪去,也没有使那位妇人感觉自己是微不足道的或是别人的累赘。
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