Control Your Ego: Speak Truth, Silence Falsehood
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Mukālifatu nafs means that when you're getting into a heated argument ʾidha ʿaratta ʾanta tatakallam fasqut ʾidha ʿaratta antas ʾata tasqut tatakallam When you want to be quiet say something That means speaking a word of truth in the face of falsehood When you want to be quiet when your lower self says be quiet and you say "No I'm going to speak the truth 'cause my nafs is telling me be quiet but Allah is telling me speak up I'm going to speak the truth." When you want to say something because your ego is a- is being bruised or you're in the midst of an argument at that point fasqut prefer silence ʾMukālifatu nafs
