阿訇演讲｜当你认为自己是先知默罕默德ﷺ的最好的朋友 （走进使者默罕默德系列，素材来自：Yaqeen Institute for Islamic Research）
"Meeting Muhammad ﷺ (斋月特别系列)" 由YAQEEN INSTITUE出品，为2021年斋月的特别系列；延续了前两部专辑（第一辑以“真主喜悦......”为主题，第二辑以“天使”为主题）制作优良、老少咸宜的传统，是这个时代不可多得的作品，该系列以积极的态度讨论了穆斯林社群如何应对误解和偏见，以及怎样塑造如先知ﷺ一样的完美人格这一宏观主题。
这部剧的出彩之处，还在于他将我们的空间和时间移位至1400年前的沙漠和绿洲，“身处”在先知ﷺ的那个时代背景下，并与之展开有关人生、生活、战争、礼拜等直到今天我们仍会遇到的问题。对于很多不太了解先知ﷺ或伊斯兰的人也能从这部剧中一窥当年的场景，从中获益。
他ﷺ就像一块磁铁，人们会（自然地）向他ﷺ靠近。
So at this point, you have invited the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam to your house, he knows your name, He jokes with you Alayhi Salatu Wasallam and he had a way SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, of making you feel like you were the most beloved person to him, even if there were many people that were ahead of you on the list and that was from his mercy SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam
到了这一集，你已经邀请过先知ﷺ去你家做客，他ﷺ知道了你的名字。他ﷺ和你一起开过玩笑，他ﷺ现在已经让你感觉到你是他ﷺ最喜爱的人了，尽管被喜爱的人的名单上也有很多人排在你之前，而那正是他ﷺ仁慈的体现。
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Ali radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu has an interesting way of describing the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam in this regard,
关于这个，阿里（愿主喜悦之）曾用过一种特殊的方式来描述过先知ﷺ
he says that the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam used to attract the people to him
他（愿主喜悦之）说人们常慕名而来，来找先知ﷺ
He was the opposite of someone who turns people away from faith SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, right? You saw the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, you wanted to be around him, you naturally loved Allah more when you were around him,
他ﷺ从来不是那个使人们远离信仰的那个人，对吧？（因为他ﷺ让人们重回正信！）因为当你看到先知ﷺ时，你想陪伴左右，而当你与他ﷺ相处时，你会自然而然地敬爱真主
he would not repel people SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam. So he was like a magnet Alayhi Salatu Wasallam, and people would get close to him,
他ﷺ也不会排斥任何人，所以他ﷺ就像一块磁铁，人们会（自然地）向他ﷺ靠近
and he said that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would take the person that was noble amongst the people, and he would charge them with their affairs meaning he would uphold their positions SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam
他（愿主喜悦之）说，先知ﷺ会挑选人群中最高贵之人，并安排给他们一些事务去做，意即他ﷺ会提高这些人的地位。
and at the same time, of course and this is not the description of Ali radiAllahu Anhu, but what we've established thus far of how the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would take people that had no status in society. and he would uplift them Alayhi Salatu Wasallam, and then charge them with the affairs of the people on the basis of their piety.
当然，现在我们先不讨论阿里（愿主喜悦之）的那些与上述有关的（人才选拔的）传述，而是迄今为止的那些我们确定的另一些传述的故事，后者描述的是先知ﷺ如何对待那些毫无社会地位者的记载。 他ﷺ（同样）会提拔他们，然后根据他们的虔敬程度，分配不同的管理事务。
But then he says that the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was actually wary of people. He was guarded Alayhi Salatu Wasallam but that wouldn't cause him to deprive them of his warm smile or his blessed conduct, Alayhi Salatu Wasallam, his good character.
他（愿主喜悦之）又说，先知ﷺ实际对人（即安排事务给别人）又是比较小心的。他ﷺ虽然谨慎，但并不会转而不再对他们微笑，或者不再与他们优美地相处。
And what that means is that the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was not naive, right? The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was someone that showed people the best akhlaq, but he wouldn't be an effective leader Alayhi Salatu Wasallam,
当然，那也并非意味着先知ﷺ是天真的轻信的，对吧？ 先知ﷺ是那种可以向人们展示其优秀品格的人，但却鲜能高效领导别人。
if he didn't have some type of guard not one that caused him to mistreat you. But one that caused the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam to make sure that he was upholding the integrity of the community.
如果他ﷺ没有某种形式的警惕之心的话——当然并不是那种导致最后虐待你的那种警惕，他ﷺ就不能确保整个社群的完整（不受侵害）。
And so it was easy for you to think that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was your best friend. And that was due to his good character Alayhi Salatu Wasallam and how many Ahadith do you find of personal nasihahs, that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam gave to people, personal advice, right?
因此，你会很容易把先知ﷺ当成你最好的朋友。那是由于他ﷺ良好的品格使然。你读过有多少是关于先知ﷺ给个人忠告的圣训？（很多）
A companion whose name you might not have ever heard before, but you hear it in the capacity of the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam giving personal advice to people, and how many times do you find the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam turning towards someone, and giving them very involved advice that makes its way into the books of hadith, and becomes a guide for us on how to live as well.
你可能对某个圣伴（愿主喜悦他们）的名字并不熟悉，但你却是从某段先知ﷺ曾给过这个人忠告的圣训中听到了他的名字。又有多少次你读到，当时先知ﷺ给某个人相关的建议，后来这些故事被收录进圣训之中，后来圣训又变成今天指导我们生活的指南的呢？（也是有很多）
So the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam gave personal attention to people, he gave personal advice to people, he also liked to exchange gifts with people SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, Rubaiya radiAllahu ta'ala Anha She says that, "I brought the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam a tray of dates and some small cucumbers.."
因此，先知ﷺ给人们以关注，给人们以建议。他ﷺ也喜欢与人交换礼物；鲁拜娅（愿主喜悦之）说：“我给先知带来了一盘椰枣和一些小黄瓜。”
Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam used to like cucumbers and the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam gifted me in return, a handful of jewelry SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, and that's why Aisha radiAllahu ta'ala Anha says that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam if someone gave him a gift, he wanted to give that person as well.
先知ﷺ喜欢吃黄瓜。作为回礼，先知ﷺ也给了她一把珠宝，这也是为什么阿伊莎（愿主喜悦之）说的，如果有人送礼物给先知ﷺ，他ﷺ也想也给那个人回礼。
And you can imagine how many people would go to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and give him a gift. And the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would make note of that, and he wants to gift that person immediately in return or he would gift them at some later point Alayhi Salatu Wasallam.
你可以想象有多少人会去找先知ﷺ，并送礼物给他ﷺ。 先知ﷺ会（非常）注重这一点，他ﷺ会想着立即给那个人回礼，或者稍后一些回礼给他们。
So now we're in a place where I have personal conversations with him, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he is joking with me alahyi salatu wasalam.
所以现在（假想一下），假设处在这么一个场景之中：我和他ﷺ进行着私人谈话，他ﷺ在和我开着玩笑。（想像一下这种亲密而轻松的氛围）。
Jabir ibn Abdullah radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, He says, "I never saw the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam except that he was smiling at me." So you see the difference here that, it's not just that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was always smiling, no, like he always smiled at me. I felt his warmth, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and on top of that, we are exchanging gifts as well. The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam takes gifts from me. he gives me gifts and that's something that's special, right?
贾比尔·伊本·阿卜杜拉（愿主喜悦之）说：“我从未见过先知ﷺ，而我第一次见他时，他ﷺ一直对我微笑（就如同相识许久）。因此你可以在这里体会到（他ﷺ与别人对待你的）区别，先知ﷺ不只是微笑，而好像他ﷺ只是对我微笑。我感到了他ﷺ的温暖；最重要的是，我们还互换了礼物。先知ﷺ接受了我的礼物，他ﷺ也回赠了我礼物，那就有点特别了，对吧？
And so you have this really beautiful narration from Amr ibn al-As radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, the same Amr radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu who waged war on the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam for all of those years. Who try to take back the refugees in Habesha and Abyssinia convinced the Najashi to give them up who persecuted the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam in Mecca, who fought against the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam in numerous battles, who in Uhud was actually one of the main engineers of that plot in Uhud that led to the deaths of many people. but he embraced Islam, and he became a beloved companion of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam.
你也肯定听过这段美丽的传述，传述人是阿米尔·伊本·阿斯（愿主喜悦之），对了，他就是那位多年来一直对先知发动战争的阿米尔（愿主喜悦之）。同时，这位阿米尔（愿主喜悦之）曾试图索回（为躲避宗教迫害而逃亡至）阿比西尼亚国哈贝沙地方的难民，他还曾劝说过纳贾西（当时阿国的国王）交出他们。他还在麦加对先知ﷺ多行迫害。他也曾在多次战役中与先知ﷺ对峙。他也是乌候德战役中实际的几个主要策划人之一——在该战役中许多穆斯林牺牲……但他（愿主喜悦之）最后拥抱了（归信）伊斯兰，而成为了先知ﷺ的一位追随者。
Can you imagine that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, treated him in such a way that he thought that he might now be the best friend of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam.
你能想象那种画面吗？先知ﷺ以那种超级优美的方式对待他（愿主喜悦之），以至于他认为自己就是先知ﷺ那位最好的朋友。
And he narrates this by giving us the full picture. He says that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam he used to speak to and show love and affection to asharral qaum,to the worst person of a people. to where they would think they are ashathil qaum They would think they're the best people, right? Because the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam gave them so much love and attention
他（愿主喜悦之）通过这段传述给我们带来了一幅全画面。 他（愿主喜悦之）说，先知ﷺ曾经与最恶劣之人说话，并向他们表达爱和热忱，使得这些人认为（有了这种待遇相待）他们成了“最优秀”的人，对吧？这是因为先知ﷺ给予了他们那么多的爱和关注。
and he says, this was a form of ta'lif, a form of bringing hearts together, that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam employed as part of his mannerisms, and so he would give me this attention, and he would speak to me in this special way, and he showed me such love that I started to think that maybe I'm the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam best friend.
他（愿主喜悦之）还说，这是一种凝聚人心的形式，先知将其融入到了其言行举止中，因此他ﷺ会给我这种关怀，会以这种特殊的方式同我说话，而且他ﷺ向我展示了那么多的爱，以至于我都开始认为也许我是先知ﷺ的最好的朋友。
So one day I went to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, in another hadith by the way he explains that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam you know put him at the head of an army. So this is serious now, right? Like I'm up there with the rest of them.
因此，有一天我去找先知ﷺ，顺便提及一下在另一条圣训（提尔米兹圣训集3885）中他解释道，先知ﷺ当时任命了他为某支军队的首领。这变得严肃（认真）起来了，对吧？就像我真被提升到那个位置（指成了先知ﷺ最好的朋友）一样，和其他（被重视的）人一样
So he said, "I went to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam on one day in front of the people," and I said "Ya Rasulillah ayuhan nasi ahabu ilayk" Oh, messenger of Allah, who is the most beloved of people to you.
所以他说，一天，我趁着众人都在时，去找先知ﷺ。我问说，真主的使者啊ﷺ，在所有人里面，你的至爱是谁？
So you can imagine the scene, right? Amr radhiallahu anhu is looking out to the people, "Ya Rasululillah go ahead and tell them, who's the most beloved person to you?"
所以你可以想像那个画面，对吧。阿米尔（愿主喜悦之）向人们扫望，“真主的使者啊ﷺ，说出来吧，人们之中谁是你最挚爱的那一个？”
The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam doesn't lie. Rasulullah SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam said, "Aisha."radiAllahu ta'ala Anha
先知ﷺ并没有撒谎，（因为）他说的是：“阿伊莎（愿主喜悦之）。”
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and Amr ibn al-As radiAllahu Anhu says, " No, no, no minar rijal, I mean, from the men, because it was weird, right? I mean, that's one of those things like kissing your kids in public. What do you mean? You love your wife more than everybody else.
阿米尔·伊本·阿斯（愿主喜悦之）说：“不，不，不，我的意思是，众男士之中”。其实那听起来有些奇怪，对吧？我的意思是，有些尴尬，就像是在公共场合亲了你孩子那样。你是不是在说你比其他人更爱你的妻子？
And the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam says, well, "Abuha" Her father, I'm being honest right? And he didn't say, Abu Bakr radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, he said, Abu ha, her father, who of course is Abu Bakr, but it's like the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam is still connecting the love that he has for Abu Bakr to the love he has for Aisha. So I love Aisha, and then you asked me from who from the men, well its Abu Bakr.
先知ﷺ说，“好吧，她的父亲”。（译注：阿伊莎的父亲是第一任哈里发艾卜·巴克尔，愿主喜悦他俩）我很诚实了，对吧？他ﷺ并没有直接说艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之），而他ﷺ说的是“她的父亲”。阿伊莎的父亲（愿主喜悦之）当然是艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）啊。但是，这就像是先知ﷺ仍把他对艾卜·巴克（愿主喜悦之）的爱在与对阿伊莎（愿主喜悦之）的爱相互联系。当然了，我爱阿伊莎（愿主喜悦之），然后你要我从男人中选，那就是（她的父亲）艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）咯。
And then he says, okay, then who? Cause he understood right, you know, Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and Abu Bakr radiAllahu Anhu, Abu Bakr was the first from the men to embrace Islam, the best friend of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam Okay. That makes sense.
然后他（愿主喜悦之）接着问，“好吧，然后呢？” 因为他是知道先知ﷺ要表达的意思的，对吧？先知ﷺ和艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）……而艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）又是第一个归信伊斯兰的男性，所以是先知的最挚爱的朋友。好吧，那是讲得通的。
"Then who Ya Rasulillah?" He said, "Omar."Radiallahu ta'ala Anhu
（他，愿主喜悦之接着问）“然后是谁呢？真主的使者ﷺ” 他ﷺ回复说：“欧麦尔（愿主喜悦之）。”
(笑)
and Amr Ibn al-As, radiAllahu Anhu says okay, fine. You know, the two sheikhs, it was known, right? The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam I'm used to say I, Abu Bakr and Omar all the time, I, Abu Bakr and Omar did this,I, Abu Bakr and Omar saw this, I, Abu Bakr and Omar agree with this.
阿米尔·伊本·阿斯（愿主喜悦之）说，“好的，很好。”你知道的，这两位长老（刚提的这两位），众所周知的，对不对？而先知ﷺ又总是常说：“ 我、艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）和欧麦尔（愿主喜悦之）怎么怎么样，我、艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）和欧麦尔（愿主喜悦之）做了这个，我、艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）和欧麦尔（愿主喜悦之）看到了这个，我、艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）和欧麦尔（愿主喜悦之）都同意某个问题……”
So he said "Fine." "Who else after Omar?" "Who's next?"
然后他（愿主喜悦之）说“好吧，在欧麦尔之后还有谁呢？谁是下一个？”
So the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam said "Uthman." So he said, "I didn't want to ask the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam anything else. And I felt horrible for even asking him because I was afraid he'd never mentioned my name, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam.
然后先知ﷺ回答说“奥斯曼（愿主喜悦之）”。 所以这时他（愿主喜悦之）传述说：“我不想再问先知ﷺ问其他什么事情了。我甚至都有些恐惧为什么要问他ﷺ这些了。因为我害怕的是，他ﷺ（下一个是谁）的答案可能永远都不会是我的名字。”
Now of course the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam did not want to make him feel that way.
当然了，先知ﷺ肯定不想让（提问的）他（愿主喜悦之）会有那种感觉的。
But the point was is that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam had made him feel such a way, that he felt like he could ask the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam that question, and he would be his best friend, he would be the most beloved person in the world to him.
但问题就是，先知ﷺ却使他（愿主喜悦之）产生了那么一种感觉：他（愿主喜悦之）可以问先知ﷺ这个问题，而且答案“就”是——他（愿主喜悦之）本人将是先知ﷺ最好的朋友，他将会是这个世界上最令先知ﷺ挚爱的人。
and can you imagine, how many people that did not use to assign value to themselves, that did not use to think highly of themselves, that did not think they had access to anyone, that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam made feel like they were the most beloved, and most important people to him in the world SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, as he certainly was to them.
你可以想象一下，有多少人不习惯发现自我的价值，不习惯对自己过高评价，不认为他们可以接近他人，但是先知ﷺ却可以让他们感觉自己就是那位最受喜爱的人，就是那位世界上对他ﷺ而言最重要的人，就像他ﷺ之于他们一样。
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这部剧的出彩之处，还在于他将我们的空间和时间移位至1400年前的沙漠和绿洲，“身处”在先知ﷺ的那个时代背景下，并与之展开有关人生、生活、战争、礼拜等直到今天我们仍会遇到的问题。对于很多不太了解先知ﷺ或伊斯兰的人也能从这部剧中一窥当年的场景，从中获益。
他ﷺ就像一块磁铁，人们会（自然地）向他ﷺ靠近。
So at this point, you have invited the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam to your house, he knows your name, He jokes with you Alayhi Salatu Wasallam and he had a way SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, of making you feel like you were the most beloved person to him, even if there were many people that were ahead of you on the list and that was from his mercy SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam
到了这一集，你已经邀请过先知ﷺ去你家做客，他ﷺ知道了你的名字。他ﷺ和你一起开过玩笑，他ﷺ现在已经让你感觉到你是他ﷺ最喜爱的人了，尽管被喜爱的人的名单上也有很多人排在你之前，而那正是他ﷺ仁慈的体现。
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Ali radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu has an interesting way of describing the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam in this regard,
关于这个，阿里（愿主喜悦之）曾用过一种特殊的方式来描述过先知ﷺ
he says that the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam used to attract the people to him
他（愿主喜悦之）说人们常慕名而来，来找先知ﷺ
He was the opposite of someone who turns people away from faith SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, right? You saw the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, you wanted to be around him, you naturally loved Allah more when you were around him,
他ﷺ从来不是那个使人们远离信仰的那个人，对吧？（因为他ﷺ让人们重回正信！）因为当你看到先知ﷺ时，你想陪伴左右，而当你与他ﷺ相处时，你会自然而然地敬爱真主
he would not repel people SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam. So he was like a magnet Alayhi Salatu Wasallam, and people would get close to him,
他ﷺ也不会排斥任何人，所以他ﷺ就像一块磁铁，人们会（自然地）向他ﷺ靠近
and he said that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would take the person that was noble amongst the people, and he would charge them with their affairs meaning he would uphold their positions SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam
他（愿主喜悦之）说，先知ﷺ会挑选人群中最高贵之人，并安排给他们一些事务去做，意即他ﷺ会提高这些人的地位。
and at the same time, of course and this is not the description of Ali radiAllahu Anhu, but what we've established thus far of how the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would take people that had no status in society. and he would uplift them Alayhi Salatu Wasallam, and then charge them with the affairs of the people on the basis of their piety.
当然，现在我们先不讨论阿里（愿主喜悦之）的那些与上述有关的（人才选拔的）传述，而是迄今为止的那些我们确定的另一些传述的故事，后者描述的是先知ﷺ如何对待那些毫无社会地位者的记载。 他ﷺ（同样）会提拔他们，然后根据他们的虔敬程度，分配不同的管理事务。
But then he says that the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was actually wary of people. He was guarded Alayhi Salatu Wasallam but that wouldn't cause him to deprive them of his warm smile or his blessed conduct, Alayhi Salatu Wasallam, his good character.
他（愿主喜悦之）又说，先知ﷺ实际对人（即安排事务给别人）又是比较小心的。他ﷺ虽然谨慎，但并不会转而不再对他们微笑，或者不再与他们优美地相处。
And what that means is that the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was not naive, right? The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was someone that showed people the best akhlaq, but he wouldn't be an effective leader Alayhi Salatu Wasallam,
当然，那也并非意味着先知ﷺ是天真的轻信的，对吧？ 先知ﷺ是那种可以向人们展示其优秀品格的人，但却鲜能高效领导别人。
if he didn't have some type of guard not one that caused him to mistreat you. But one that caused the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam to make sure that he was upholding the integrity of the community.
如果他ﷺ没有某种形式的警惕之心的话——当然并不是那种导致最后虐待你的那种警惕，他ﷺ就不能确保整个社群的完整（不受侵害）。
And so it was easy for you to think that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was your best friend. And that was due to his good character Alayhi Salatu Wasallam and how many Ahadith do you find of personal nasihahs, that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam gave to people, personal advice, right?
因此，你会很容易把先知ﷺ当成你最好的朋友。那是由于他ﷺ良好的品格使然。你读过有多少是关于先知ﷺ给个人忠告的圣训？（很多）
A companion whose name you might not have ever heard before, but you hear it in the capacity of the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam giving personal advice to people, and how many times do you find the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam turning towards someone, and giving them very involved advice that makes its way into the books of hadith, and becomes a guide for us on how to live as well.
你可能对某个圣伴（愿主喜悦他们）的名字并不熟悉，但你却是从某段先知ﷺ曾给过这个人忠告的圣训中听到了他的名字。又有多少次你读到，当时先知ﷺ给某个人相关的建议，后来这些故事被收录进圣训之中，后来圣训又变成今天指导我们生活的指南的呢？（也是有很多）
So the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam gave personal attention to people, he gave personal advice to people, he also liked to exchange gifts with people SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, Rubaiya radiAllahu ta'ala Anha She says that, "I brought the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam a tray of dates and some small cucumbers.."
因此，先知ﷺ给人们以关注，给人们以建议。他ﷺ也喜欢与人交换礼物；鲁拜娅（愿主喜悦之）说：“我给先知带来了一盘椰枣和一些小黄瓜。”
Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam used to like cucumbers and the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam gifted me in return, a handful of jewelry SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, and that's why Aisha radiAllahu ta'ala Anha says that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam if someone gave him a gift, he wanted to give that person as well.
先知ﷺ喜欢吃黄瓜。作为回礼，先知ﷺ也给了她一把珠宝，这也是为什么阿伊莎（愿主喜悦之）说的，如果有人送礼物给先知ﷺ，他ﷺ也想也给那个人回礼。
And you can imagine how many people would go to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and give him a gift. And the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam would make note of that, and he wants to gift that person immediately in return or he would gift them at some later point Alayhi Salatu Wasallam.
你可以想象有多少人会去找先知ﷺ，并送礼物给他ﷺ。 先知ﷺ会（非常）注重这一点，他ﷺ会想着立即给那个人回礼，或者稍后一些回礼给他们。
So now we're in a place where I have personal conversations with him, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he is joking with me alahyi salatu wasalam.
所以现在（假想一下），假设处在这么一个场景之中：我和他ﷺ进行着私人谈话，他ﷺ在和我开着玩笑。（想像一下这种亲密而轻松的氛围）。
Jabir ibn Abdullah radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, He says, "I never saw the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam except that he was smiling at me." So you see the difference here that, it's not just that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was always smiling, no, like he always smiled at me. I felt his warmth, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and on top of that, we are exchanging gifts as well. The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam takes gifts from me. he gives me gifts and that's something that's special, right?
贾比尔·伊本·阿卜杜拉（愿主喜悦之）说：“我从未见过先知ﷺ，而我第一次见他时，他ﷺ一直对我微笑（就如同相识许久）。因此你可以在这里体会到（他ﷺ与别人对待你的）区别，先知ﷺ不只是微笑，而好像他ﷺ只是对我微笑。我感到了他ﷺ的温暖；最重要的是，我们还互换了礼物。先知ﷺ接受了我的礼物，他ﷺ也回赠了我礼物，那就有点特别了，对吧？
And so you have this really beautiful narration from Amr ibn al-As radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, the same Amr radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu who waged war on the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam for all of those years. Who try to take back the refugees in Habesha and Abyssinia convinced the Najashi to give them up who persecuted the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam in Mecca, who fought against the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam in numerous battles, who in Uhud was actually one of the main engineers of that plot in Uhud that led to the deaths of many people. but he embraced Islam, and he became a beloved companion of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam.
你也肯定听过这段美丽的传述，传述人是阿米尔·伊本·阿斯（愿主喜悦之），对了，他就是那位多年来一直对先知发动战争的阿米尔（愿主喜悦之）。同时，这位阿米尔（愿主喜悦之）曾试图索回（为躲避宗教迫害而逃亡至）阿比西尼亚国哈贝沙地方的难民，他还曾劝说过纳贾西（当时阿国的国王）交出他们。他还在麦加对先知ﷺ多行迫害。他也曾在多次战役中与先知ﷺ对峙。他也是乌候德战役中实际的几个主要策划人之一——在该战役中许多穆斯林牺牲……但他（愿主喜悦之）最后拥抱了（归信）伊斯兰，而成为了先知ﷺ的一位追随者。
Can you imagine that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, treated him in such a way that he thought that he might now be the best friend of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam.
你能想象那种画面吗？先知ﷺ以那种超级优美的方式对待他（愿主喜悦之），以至于他认为自己就是先知ﷺ那位最好的朋友。
And he narrates this by giving us the full picture. He says that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam he used to speak to and show love and affection to asharral qaum,to the worst person of a people. to where they would think they are ashathil qaum They would think they're the best people, right? Because the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam gave them so much love and attention
他（愿主喜悦之）通过这段传述给我们带来了一幅全画面。 他（愿主喜悦之）说，先知ﷺ曾经与最恶劣之人说话，并向他们表达爱和热忱，使得这些人认为（有了这种待遇相待）他们成了“最优秀”的人，对吧？这是因为先知ﷺ给予了他们那么多的爱和关注。
and he says, this was a form of ta'lif, a form of bringing hearts together, that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam employed as part of his mannerisms, and so he would give me this attention, and he would speak to me in this special way, and he showed me such love that I started to think that maybe I'm the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam best friend.
他（愿主喜悦之）还说，这是一种凝聚人心的形式，先知将其融入到了其言行举止中，因此他ﷺ会给我这种关怀，会以这种特殊的方式同我说话，而且他ﷺ向我展示了那么多的爱，以至于我都开始认为也许我是先知ﷺ的最好的朋友。
So one day I went to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, in another hadith by the way he explains that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam you know put him at the head of an army. So this is serious now, right? Like I'm up there with the rest of them.
因此，有一天我去找先知ﷺ，顺便提及一下在另一条圣训（提尔米兹圣训集3885）中他解释道，先知ﷺ当时任命了他为某支军队的首领。这变得严肃（认真）起来了，对吧？就像我真被提升到那个位置（指成了先知ﷺ最好的朋友）一样，和其他（被重视的）人一样
So he said, "I went to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam on one day in front of the people," and I said "Ya Rasulillah ayuhan nasi ahabu ilayk" Oh, messenger of Allah, who is the most beloved of people to you.
所以他说，一天，我趁着众人都在时，去找先知ﷺ。我问说，真主的使者啊ﷺ，在所有人里面，你的至爱是谁？
So you can imagine the scene, right? Amr radhiallahu anhu is looking out to the people, "Ya Rasululillah go ahead and tell them, who's the most beloved person to you?"
所以你可以想像那个画面，对吧。阿米尔（愿主喜悦之）向人们扫望，“真主的使者啊ﷺ，说出来吧，人们之中谁是你最挚爱的那一个？”
The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam doesn't lie. Rasulullah SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam said, "Aisha."radiAllahu ta'ala Anha
先知ﷺ并没有撒谎，（因为）他说的是：“阿伊莎（愿主喜悦之）。”
(笑)
and Amr ibn al-As radiAllahu Anhu says, " No, no, no minar rijal, I mean, from the men, because it was weird, right? I mean, that's one of those things like kissing your kids in public. What do you mean? You love your wife more than everybody else.
阿米尔·伊本·阿斯（愿主喜悦之）说：“不，不，不，我的意思是，众男士之中”。其实那听起来有些奇怪，对吧？我的意思是，有些尴尬，就像是在公共场合亲了你孩子那样。你是不是在说你比其他人更爱你的妻子？
And the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam says, well, "Abuha" Her father, I'm being honest right? And he didn't say, Abu Bakr radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, he said, Abu ha, her father, who of course is Abu Bakr, but it's like the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam is still connecting the love that he has for Abu Bakr to the love he has for Aisha. So I love Aisha, and then you asked me from who from the men, well its Abu Bakr.
先知ﷺ说，“好吧，她的父亲”。（译注：阿伊莎的父亲是第一任哈里发艾卜·巴克尔，愿主喜悦他俩）我很诚实了，对吧？他ﷺ并没有直接说艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之），而他ﷺ说的是“她的父亲”。阿伊莎的父亲（愿主喜悦之）当然是艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）啊。但是，这就像是先知ﷺ仍把他对艾卜·巴克（愿主喜悦之）的爱在与对阿伊莎（愿主喜悦之）的爱相互联系。当然了，我爱阿伊莎（愿主喜悦之），然后你要我从男人中选，那就是（她的父亲）艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）咯。
And then he says, okay, then who? Cause he understood right, you know, Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and Abu Bakr radiAllahu Anhu, Abu Bakr was the first from the men to embrace Islam, the best friend of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam Okay. That makes sense.
然后他（愿主喜悦之）接着问，“好吧，然后呢？” 因为他是知道先知ﷺ要表达的意思的，对吧？先知ﷺ和艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）……而艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）又是第一个归信伊斯兰的男性，所以是先知的最挚爱的朋友。好吧，那是讲得通的。
"Then who Ya Rasulillah?" He said, "Omar."Radiallahu ta'ala Anhu
（他，愿主喜悦之接着问）“然后是谁呢？真主的使者ﷺ” 他ﷺ回复说：“欧麦尔（愿主喜悦之）。”
(笑)
and Amr Ibn al-As, radiAllahu Anhu says okay, fine. You know, the two sheikhs, it was known, right? The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam I'm used to say I, Abu Bakr and Omar all the time, I, Abu Bakr and Omar did this,I, Abu Bakr and Omar saw this, I, Abu Bakr and Omar agree with this.
阿米尔·伊本·阿斯（愿主喜悦之）说，“好的，很好。”你知道的，这两位长老（刚提的这两位），众所周知的，对不对？而先知ﷺ又总是常说：“ 我、艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）和欧麦尔（愿主喜悦之）怎么怎么样，我、艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）和欧麦尔（愿主喜悦之）做了这个，我、艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）和欧麦尔（愿主喜悦之）看到了这个，我、艾卜·巴克尔（愿主喜悦之）和欧麦尔（愿主喜悦之）都同意某个问题……”
So he said "Fine." "Who else after Omar?" "Who's next?"
然后他（愿主喜悦之）说“好吧，在欧麦尔之后还有谁呢？谁是下一个？”
So the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam said "Uthman." So he said, "I didn't want to ask the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam anything else. And I felt horrible for even asking him because I was afraid he'd never mentioned my name, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam.
然后先知ﷺ回答说“奥斯曼（愿主喜悦之）”。 所以这时他（愿主喜悦之）传述说：“我不想再问先知ﷺ问其他什么事情了。我甚至都有些恐惧为什么要问他ﷺ这些了。因为我害怕的是，他ﷺ（下一个是谁）的答案可能永远都不会是我的名字。”
Now of course the Prophets SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam did not want to make him feel that way.
当然了，先知ﷺ肯定不想让（提问的）他（愿主喜悦之）会有那种感觉的。
But the point was is that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam had made him feel such a way, that he felt like he could ask the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam that question, and he would be his best friend, he would be the most beloved person in the world to him.
但问题就是，先知ﷺ却使他（愿主喜悦之）产生了那么一种感觉：他（愿主喜悦之）可以问先知ﷺ这个问题，而且答案“就”是——他（愿主喜悦之）本人将是先知ﷺ最好的朋友，他将会是这个世界上最令先知ﷺ挚爱的人。
and can you imagine, how many people that did not use to assign value to themselves, that did not use to think highly of themselves, that did not think they had access to anyone, that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam made feel like they were the most beloved, and most important people to him in the world SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, as he certainly was to them.
你可以想象一下，有多少人不习惯发现自我的价值，不习惯对自己过高评价，不认为他们可以接近他人，但是先知ﷺ却可以让他们感觉自己就是那位最受喜爱的人，就是那位世界上对他ﷺ而言最重要的人，就像他ﷺ之于他们一样。
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