走进使者穆罕默德系列讲座｜E17：当你“感觉”先知穆罕默德ﷺ伤害了你｜由YAQEEN INSTITUE出品
"Meeting Muhammad ﷺ (斋月特别系列)" 由YAQEEN INSTITUE出品，为2021年斋月的特别系列；延续了前两部专辑（第一辑以“真主喜悦......”为主题，第二辑以“天使”为主题）制作优良、老少咸宜的传统，是这个时代不可多得的作品，该系列以积极的态度讨论了穆斯林社群如何应对误解和偏见，以及怎样塑造如先知ﷺ一样的完美人格这一宏观主题。
这部剧的出彩之处，还在于他将我们的空间和时间移位至1400年前的沙漠和绿洲，“身处”在先知ﷺ的那个时代背景下，并与之展开有关人生、生活、战争、礼拜等直到今天我们仍会遇到的问题。对于很多不太了解先知ﷺ或伊斯兰的人也能从这部剧中一窥当年的场景，从中获益。
先知ﷺ的谦卑足以让你“感受”到你被他伤害后，你就会拥有那份追索的权利。而他ﷺ越是这样做，你也就越爱戴他ﷺ，他ﷺ也就越能被民众和真主所荣耀。
If you're a merciful person in general, when someone comes to you and tells you that you hurt their feelings, then you're going to listen to them. You're going to pay attention to them.
如果你整体上是一个仁慈的人话，当有人来找你并告诉你，你伤害了他们的感情时，你会去倾听他们的诉说。你会对他们倾注你的关心。
How would it then be with the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, Even though the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam did not wrong anyone? How would it be if you told the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam that you were hurt by him?
如果这事儿发生在先知ﷺ身上呢，前提还是他ﷺ其实并未对任何人施行不义？如果你告诉先知ﷺ他ﷺ伤害了你的感情，情况会是怎样呢？
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Now as we've gone through many times and we'll probably still continue to go through the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam had such high emotional intelligence, that he could sense things Alayhi Salatu Wasallam
我们已经回顾了多次（先知ﷺ的故事），（但）我们今天仍将继续温故一下先知ﷺ如此之高的情商——他ﷺ那超乎寻常的感受事物的方式。
He knew if you were upset with him Alayhi Salatu Wasallam. He Alayhi Salatu Wasallam once told Aisha radiAllahu ta'ala Anha（R.A.）, In fact, he said, I can tell when you're mad at me even when you don't tell me you're mad at me. She said how?
他ﷺ能意识到他ﷺ是否使你不安。他ﷺ有次告诉阿伊莎（愿主喜悦她），实际上他ﷺ说的是，即使你不告诉我，我也能猜出来我是否惹你生气了。她（愿主喜悦她）问怎么做到的？
The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam said, because when you are pleased with me, you swear by the Lord of Muhammad SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, And when you're upset with me, you swear bi Rabbi Ibrahim by the Lord of Ibrahim Alayhi Salaam, So I can tell that there's something going on.
先知ﷺ说，因为当你因为我而高兴时，你说的是“以掌管穆罕默德ﷺ的主发誓”， 而当你因为我而不高兴时，你说的是“以掌管伊布拉欣（愿主平安之）的主发誓”。所以我可以辨别出来发生了什么事儿。
So the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam could sense if you were not feeling good around him, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam or if you felt hurt by him Alayhi Salatu Wasallam,
因此，如果你在他ﷺ身边而感受不爽时，或者，你感到被他ﷺ伤害之时，先知ﷺ其实是可以察觉到的。
and out of his rahmah, out of his mercy and out of his empathy, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he would ask you what was wrong and even in tense, high stakes situations.
出于他的仁慈和同情，他ﷺ会问你发生了什么，甚至在事态严肃，在周边局势高度紧张时（他ﷺ也会分身关心你）。
We see that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was still held to a higher standard. And he used to hold himself to a higher standard.
我们看到，先知ﷺ一向被（真主）限以更高的标准；并且他ﷺ也一直以更高的标准自律。
One of the most famous stories that is written in the Qur'an is the story of Abd-Allah ibn Umm-Maktum, AAabasa watawalla, it's not a surah that is in one of the longer ajza', one of the longer chapters of the Qur'an, And it's in juz'amma,
其中一个最著名的故事，是在《古兰经》中，也就是阿卜杜拉·伊本·乌姆·马库姆（愿主喜悦之）的故事——《皱眉》。这个故事并没有淹没在那些较长的章节之中（而是单独的一章）；这章在《古兰经》的第三十卷中。
our children will memorize Surah 'Abasa that he frowned SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, And we know the story of Abd-Allah ibn Umm-Maktum radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu coming to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, And he was a blind man coming to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, quickly, quickly, quickly.
我们的孩子会背记《皱眉》这章，故事中先知ﷺ皱了眉。我们得知当时阿卜杜拉·伊本·乌姆·马库姆（愿主喜悦他）来到先知ﷺ身边，他是一个盲人，急匆匆地来找先知ﷺ，很急，很急。
And when the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam sees him, the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he frowns at a blind man, and he did that SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam because he was talking to some of the elites of Quraysh, who did not use to give him any attention SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and he felt like he finally had a chance to talk to them. And he finally had their ears.
当先知ﷺ见到他时，他ﷺ对这个盲人皱了一下眉头，之所以这样，是因为他ﷺ正在和古莱什部族的一些精英交谈，（当时）那些精英们是不理会先知ﷺ的，而这次他ﷺ终于有一个机会能跟他们交谈。当时他们也在听他ﷺ讲着。
And now Abd-Allah ibn Umm-Maktum radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, not knowing, who represented the poor, the downtrodden, comes and he's shouting Ya Rasulillah, teach me from what Allah taught you. And the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, 'Abasa, he simply frowned SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and he continued to speak to the elites of Quraysh.
前来的阿卜杜拉·伊本·乌姆·马库姆（愿主喜悦他）并不知晓这些——他是那类穷人、弱势群体——他来到先知ﷺ身边，喊道：真主的使者ﷺ啊，请传授我一些真主教给你的知识吧。先知ﷺ皱了皱眉，他ﷺ也只是简单地皱了一下眉，然后继续和古莱什部族的精英们交谈着。
Now, when Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la revealed the Surah, right, admonishing the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, and holding the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam to a higher standard. How would the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam treat Abd-Allah ibn Umm-Maktum after that?
接着真主就降下了《古兰经》的这部分章节来告诫先知ﷺ，对吧？其中用了更高的标准来约束先知ﷺ，之后，先知ﷺ又是如何对待的阿卜杜拉·伊本·乌姆·马库姆呢？
The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam used to greet him and say, #marhaban bi man aa'tabani fihi rabbi marhaban bi man aa'tabani fihi rabbi#. Welcome to him on whose behalf Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la admonished me.
先知ﷺ向他打了招呼，并说欢迎他，真主以他告诫了我。
So it was a special type of greeting. And we see that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam will go out of his way to make sure that Abd-Allah ibn Umm-Maktum radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu has a special place in the community.
这是一种特殊的问候方式。 我们看到，先知ﷺ不遗余力地确保阿卜杜拉·伊本·乌姆·马库姆（愿主喜悦他）在社区中的特殊位置。
he (R.A.) is going to gave azan that time, he is someone that, though he can not participate in the battle like everyone else,
（先知ﷺ）让他做了宣礼员，因为他是一个那种不能像其他人一样参加战斗的人
He's still going to be a flag bearer radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam makes sure to include him in all of these different spaces, and the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam make sure that the effect of that moment, where he frowned at him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam has led to complete blessing for him, for the rest of his existence on this earth. And of course, when he meets Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la.
他（愿主喜悦他）还当上了护旗手。先知ﷺ确保了他在所有这些不同的场景中的参与感，确保那一时刻——也就是他ﷺ皱眉之时——给他（愿主喜悦他）带来了（良性）影响，能为他（愿主喜悦他）的余生带来全美的祝福。当然，当他（愿主喜悦他）“见”到真主时，也是如此。
Now, there was another incident, that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, walks by a group of people. And there are these young men, and it's in a time of battle as well.
还发生过另一事件，当时先知ﷺ路过一群人，那是一群年轻人。当时的局势正处于战斗之中。
So it's again, a high stakes situation. And the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam is lining up the troops. And Usayd ibn Hudayr radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, he says, there was this young man from the ansar that was constantly talking to the people and making them laugh.
所以这次也是局势紧张的一次。先知ﷺ其时正在整顿队伍。乌赛伊德·伊本·胡达尔（愿主喜悦他）传述说，辅士之中有这么一个年轻人，当时他一直在与人们交谈，引得人们大笑。
So they're getting ready for battle. And you have this young man that doesn't stop and he's getting out of line literally, right? And making the others laugh.
他们当时正整装待发。如果你遇到这么一个年轻人还依旧在说个不停，不夸张地说就是违规违纪了，对吧？而且他还在引逗其他人。
And the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he pokes him under the ribs with his stick SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam. Now again, it's understood.
于是先知ﷺ就用棍子捅了一下这个年轻人的肋骨往下的位置。强调一下，这其实是一种可以理解的做法。
He is a military general in this sense SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam. He's getting them ready for battle. But this young man says to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, asbirni, he says "let me take my retaliation. I deserve to have retaliation."
从某种意义上讲，先知ﷺ就是军队的将军。他ﷺ正在整顿队伍为战斗做好准备。但是这个年轻人却对先知ﷺ说：“让我捅回来。（你捅了我）我得捅回来。”
Now the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he could have told him, "Are you serious?" Right? He could have admonished him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam further, he could have explained to him why he poked him, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, it was understood to him and to everyone else that this was for him to calm down and to stay in line, and to not continue further disrupting the situation.
先知ﷺ这时原本可以说：“你是认真的吗？” 对吧？他ﷺ本可以进一步提醒他，他ﷺ也可以向他解释为什么要捅他。因为（捅他）这件事于他于所有人都是可以理解的，就是想让他安静下来，遵守纪律，不能再过分影响队伍。
But instead, when he says to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam asbirni, give me my revenge, give me my retaliation. The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he goes to him and he says, take your retaliation. subhanAllah look at his humility, Alayhi Salatu Wasallam He doesn't say anything else. He doesn't explain his actions. He does not belittle the man. He doesn't say to him, "Who do you think you are? Go home. We'll talk later."
但相反，当年轻人吵着“让我捅回来，让我捅回来”时，先知ﷺ朝他走过去并说，“你捅回来吧。”赞主清净超绝。看看他ﷺ的谦卑吧，他ﷺ什么也没多说。 他ﷺ也没有解释自己之所以捅他的原因。他ﷺ没有轻视这个人。 他ﷺ（甚至也）没对他说：“你以为你是谁？回家去。我们待会儿再谈。”
He says, "Go ahead and poke me back. Take your retaliation."
他ﷺ说：“来，捅吧，捅回来。”
This young man then says to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, "Ya Rasulillah, inna alayka qamisan wa laysa alaya qamis" He said, "Oh, messenger of Allah, You're wearing a shirt and I'm not wearing a shirt. So when you poked me, it hurt me more. It left a mark because I'm not wearing a shirt. And you, on the other hand don't have to worry about a mark."
然后这个年轻人对先知ﷺ说：“真主的使者ﷺ啊，你现在穿着衣服，我没有穿衣服。所以当你捅我的时候，捅得更痛。因为没隔着衣服，我身上留下了一个印。而您又不用担心有没有印子。”
What is the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam do again? He could have said to him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, like, calm down. Just go ahead and poke me and get it over with.
先知ﷺ接下来怎么做的呢？ 他ﷺ本可以对他说，安静！来捅我一下，这事就完了。
Instead, the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he raises his shirt Alayhi Salatu Wasallam. I mean, subhanAllah, if you're witnessing this, what are you thinking about the humility of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam? This was all genuine.
相反，先知ﷺ掀开了衣服。我的意思是，如果你目睹了这一切，那么你会如何看待先知ﷺ的谦卑？而这些都是真实发生的。
The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was not doing this with any type of hesitation. It was his natural disposition, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam. So the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam raises his shirt. After that, the young man, he hugs the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, and he kisses the ribs of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam instead.
先知ﷺ这样做时，没有任何犹豫。这是他ﷺ的天性使然，所以先知ﷺ掀开了他的衣服。然后，那个年轻人，他拥抱了先知ﷺ，并亲吻了先知ﷺ的肋骨，并没有真的捅回去。
And he says #inna ma aratuhaaba ya rasulillah#. That's all I really wanted from you, Oh messenger of Allah.
他说，真主的使者啊，这才是我真正想从您那儿得到的！
So subhanAllah, you see in this one exchange that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was humble enough to ensure that if you felt hurt by him, that you felt like you had your place of recourse but the more he did that, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, The more he made you love him. And the more that he was further honored in the sight of the people and in the sight of Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la.
赞主清净超绝，在这一次交流之中你能看到，先知ﷺ的谦卑足以让你“感受”到你被他伤害后，你就会拥有那份追索的权利。而他ﷺ越是这样做，你也就越爱戴他ﷺ，他ﷺ也就越能被民众和真主所荣耀。
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这部剧的出彩之处，还在于他将我们的空间和时间移位至1400年前的沙漠和绿洲，“身处”在先知ﷺ的那个时代背景下，并与之展开有关人生、生活、战争、礼拜等直到今天我们仍会遇到的问题。对于很多不太了解先知ﷺ或伊斯兰的人也能从这部剧中一窥当年的场景，从中获益。
先知ﷺ的谦卑足以让你“感受”到你被他伤害后，你就会拥有那份追索的权利。而他ﷺ越是这样做，你也就越爱戴他ﷺ，他ﷺ也就越能被民众和真主所荣耀。
If you're a merciful person in general, when someone comes to you and tells you that you hurt their feelings, then you're going to listen to them. You're going to pay attention to them.
如果你整体上是一个仁慈的人话，当有人来找你并告诉你，你伤害了他们的感情时，你会去倾听他们的诉说。你会对他们倾注你的关心。
How would it then be with the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, Even though the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam did not wrong anyone? How would it be if you told the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam that you were hurt by him?
如果这事儿发生在先知ﷺ身上呢，前提还是他ﷺ其实并未对任何人施行不义？如果你告诉先知ﷺ他ﷺ伤害了你的感情，情况会是怎样呢？
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Now as we've gone through many times and we'll probably still continue to go through the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam had such high emotional intelligence, that he could sense things Alayhi Salatu Wasallam
我们已经回顾了多次（先知ﷺ的故事），（但）我们今天仍将继续温故一下先知ﷺ如此之高的情商——他ﷺ那超乎寻常的感受事物的方式。
He knew if you were upset with him Alayhi Salatu Wasallam. He Alayhi Salatu Wasallam once told Aisha radiAllahu ta'ala Anha（R.A.）, In fact, he said, I can tell when you're mad at me even when you don't tell me you're mad at me. She said how?
他ﷺ能意识到他ﷺ是否使你不安。他ﷺ有次告诉阿伊莎（愿主喜悦她），实际上他ﷺ说的是，即使你不告诉我，我也能猜出来我是否惹你生气了。她（愿主喜悦她）问怎么做到的？
The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam said, because when you are pleased with me, you swear by the Lord of Muhammad SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, And when you're upset with me, you swear bi Rabbi Ibrahim by the Lord of Ibrahim Alayhi Salaam, So I can tell that there's something going on.
先知ﷺ说，因为当你因为我而高兴时，你说的是“以掌管穆罕默德ﷺ的主发誓”， 而当你因为我而不高兴时，你说的是“以掌管伊布拉欣（愿主平安之）的主发誓”。所以我可以辨别出来发生了什么事儿。
So the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam could sense if you were not feeling good around him, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam or if you felt hurt by him Alayhi Salatu Wasallam,
因此，如果你在他ﷺ身边而感受不爽时，或者，你感到被他ﷺ伤害之时，先知ﷺ其实是可以察觉到的。
and out of his rahmah, out of his mercy and out of his empathy, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he would ask you what was wrong and even in tense, high stakes situations.
出于他的仁慈和同情，他ﷺ会问你发生了什么，甚至在事态严肃，在周边局势高度紧张时（他ﷺ也会分身关心你）。
We see that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was still held to a higher standard. And he used to hold himself to a higher standard.
我们看到，先知ﷺ一向被（真主）限以更高的标准；并且他ﷺ也一直以更高的标准自律。
One of the most famous stories that is written in the Qur'an is the story of Abd-Allah ibn Umm-Maktum, AAabasa watawalla, it's not a surah that is in one of the longer ajza', one of the longer chapters of the Qur'an, And it's in juz'amma,
其中一个最著名的故事，是在《古兰经》中，也就是阿卜杜拉·伊本·乌姆·马库姆（愿主喜悦之）的故事——《皱眉》。这个故事并没有淹没在那些较长的章节之中（而是单独的一章）；这章在《古兰经》的第三十卷中。
our children will memorize Surah 'Abasa that he frowned SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, And we know the story of Abd-Allah ibn Umm-Maktum radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu coming to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, And he was a blind man coming to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, quickly, quickly, quickly.
我们的孩子会背记《皱眉》这章，故事中先知ﷺ皱了眉。我们得知当时阿卜杜拉·伊本·乌姆·马库姆（愿主喜悦他）来到先知ﷺ身边，他是一个盲人，急匆匆地来找先知ﷺ，很急，很急。
And when the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam sees him, the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he frowns at a blind man, and he did that SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam because he was talking to some of the elites of Quraysh, who did not use to give him any attention SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and he felt like he finally had a chance to talk to them. And he finally had their ears.
当先知ﷺ见到他时，他ﷺ对这个盲人皱了一下眉头，之所以这样，是因为他ﷺ正在和古莱什部族的一些精英交谈，（当时）那些精英们是不理会先知ﷺ的，而这次他ﷺ终于有一个机会能跟他们交谈。当时他们也在听他ﷺ讲着。
And now Abd-Allah ibn Umm-Maktum radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, not knowing, who represented the poor, the downtrodden, comes and he's shouting Ya Rasulillah, teach me from what Allah taught you. And the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, 'Abasa, he simply frowned SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and he continued to speak to the elites of Quraysh.
前来的阿卜杜拉·伊本·乌姆·马库姆（愿主喜悦他）并不知晓这些——他是那类穷人、弱势群体——他来到先知ﷺ身边，喊道：真主的使者ﷺ啊，请传授我一些真主教给你的知识吧。先知ﷺ皱了皱眉，他ﷺ也只是简单地皱了一下眉，然后继续和古莱什部族的精英们交谈着。
Now, when Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la revealed the Surah, right, admonishing the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, and holding the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam to a higher standard. How would the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam treat Abd-Allah ibn Umm-Maktum after that?
接着真主就降下了《古兰经》的这部分章节来告诫先知ﷺ，对吧？其中用了更高的标准来约束先知ﷺ，之后，先知ﷺ又是如何对待的阿卜杜拉·伊本·乌姆·马库姆呢？
The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam used to greet him and say, #marhaban bi man aa'tabani fihi rabbi marhaban bi man aa'tabani fihi rabbi#. Welcome to him on whose behalf Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la admonished me.
先知ﷺ向他打了招呼，并说欢迎他，真主以他告诫了我。
So it was a special type of greeting. And we see that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam will go out of his way to make sure that Abd-Allah ibn Umm-Maktum radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu has a special place in the community.
这是一种特殊的问候方式。 我们看到，先知ﷺ不遗余力地确保阿卜杜拉·伊本·乌姆·马库姆（愿主喜悦他）在社区中的特殊位置。
he (R.A.) is going to gave azan that time, he is someone that, though he can not participate in the battle like everyone else,
（先知ﷺ）让他做了宣礼员，因为他是一个那种不能像其他人一样参加战斗的人
He's still going to be a flag bearer radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam makes sure to include him in all of these different spaces, and the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam make sure that the effect of that moment, where he frowned at him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam has led to complete blessing for him, for the rest of his existence on this earth. And of course, when he meets Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la.
他（愿主喜悦他）还当上了护旗手。先知ﷺ确保了他在所有这些不同的场景中的参与感，确保那一时刻——也就是他ﷺ皱眉之时——给他（愿主喜悦他）带来了（良性）影响，能为他（愿主喜悦他）的余生带来全美的祝福。当然，当他（愿主喜悦他）“见”到真主时，也是如此。
Now, there was another incident, that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, walks by a group of people. And there are these young men, and it's in a time of battle as well.
还发生过另一事件，当时先知ﷺ路过一群人，那是一群年轻人。当时的局势正处于战斗之中。
So it's again, a high stakes situation. And the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam is lining up the troops. And Usayd ibn Hudayr radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu, he says, there was this young man from the ansar that was constantly talking to the people and making them laugh.
所以这次也是局势紧张的一次。先知ﷺ其时正在整顿队伍。乌赛伊德·伊本·胡达尔（愿主喜悦他）传述说，辅士之中有这么一个年轻人，当时他一直在与人们交谈，引得人们大笑。
So they're getting ready for battle. And you have this young man that doesn't stop and he's getting out of line literally, right? And making the others laugh.
他们当时正整装待发。如果你遇到这么一个年轻人还依旧在说个不停，不夸张地说就是违规违纪了，对吧？而且他还在引逗其他人。
And the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he pokes him under the ribs with his stick SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam. Now again, it's understood.
于是先知ﷺ就用棍子捅了一下这个年轻人的肋骨往下的位置。强调一下，这其实是一种可以理解的做法。
He is a military general in this sense SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam. He's getting them ready for battle. But this young man says to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, asbirni, he says "let me take my retaliation. I deserve to have retaliation."
从某种意义上讲，先知ﷺ就是军队的将军。他ﷺ正在整顿队伍为战斗做好准备。但是这个年轻人却对先知ﷺ说：“让我捅回来。（你捅了我）我得捅回来。”
Now the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he could have told him, "Are you serious?" Right? He could have admonished him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam further, he could have explained to him why he poked him, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, it was understood to him and to everyone else that this was for him to calm down and to stay in line, and to not continue further disrupting the situation.
先知ﷺ这时原本可以说：“你是认真的吗？” 对吧？他ﷺ本可以进一步提醒他，他ﷺ也可以向他解释为什么要捅他。因为（捅他）这件事于他于所有人都是可以理解的，就是想让他安静下来，遵守纪律，不能再过分影响队伍。
But instead, when he says to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam asbirni, give me my revenge, give me my retaliation. The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he goes to him and he says, take your retaliation. subhanAllah look at his humility, Alayhi Salatu Wasallam He doesn't say anything else. He doesn't explain his actions. He does not belittle the man. He doesn't say to him, "Who do you think you are? Go home. We'll talk later."
但相反，当年轻人吵着“让我捅回来，让我捅回来”时，先知ﷺ朝他走过去并说，“你捅回来吧。”赞主清净超绝。看看他ﷺ的谦卑吧，他ﷺ什么也没多说。 他ﷺ也没有解释自己之所以捅他的原因。他ﷺ没有轻视这个人。 他ﷺ（甚至也）没对他说：“你以为你是谁？回家去。我们待会儿再谈。”
He says, "Go ahead and poke me back. Take your retaliation."
他ﷺ说：“来，捅吧，捅回来。”
This young man then says to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, "Ya Rasulillah, inna alayka qamisan wa laysa alaya qamis" He said, "Oh, messenger of Allah, You're wearing a shirt and I'm not wearing a shirt. So when you poked me, it hurt me more. It left a mark because I'm not wearing a shirt. And you, on the other hand don't have to worry about a mark."
然后这个年轻人对先知ﷺ说：“真主的使者ﷺ啊，你现在穿着衣服，我没有穿衣服。所以当你捅我的时候，捅得更痛。因为没隔着衣服，我身上留下了一个印。而您又不用担心有没有印子。”
What is the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam do again? He could have said to him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, like, calm down. Just go ahead and poke me and get it over with.
先知ﷺ接下来怎么做的呢？ 他ﷺ本可以对他说，安静！来捅我一下，这事就完了。
Instead, the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, he raises his shirt Alayhi Salatu Wasallam. I mean, subhanAllah, if you're witnessing this, what are you thinking about the humility of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam? This was all genuine.
相反，先知ﷺ掀开了衣服。我的意思是，如果你目睹了这一切，那么你会如何看待先知ﷺ的谦卑？而这些都是真实发生的。
The Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was not doing this with any type of hesitation. It was his natural disposition, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam. So the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam raises his shirt. After that, the young man, he hugs the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, and he kisses the ribs of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam instead.
先知ﷺ这样做时，没有任何犹豫。这是他ﷺ的天性使然，所以先知ﷺ掀开了他的衣服。然后，那个年轻人，他拥抱了先知ﷺ，并亲吻了先知ﷺ的肋骨，并没有真的捅回去。
And he says #inna ma aratuhaaba ya rasulillah#. That's all I really wanted from you, Oh messenger of Allah.
他说，真主的使者啊，这才是我真正想从您那儿得到的！
So subhanAllah, you see in this one exchange that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was humble enough to ensure that if you felt hurt by him, that you felt like you had your place of recourse but the more he did that, SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, The more he made you love him. And the more that he was further honored in the sight of the people and in the sight of Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la.
赞主清净超绝，在这一次交流之中你能看到，先知ﷺ的谦卑足以让你“感受”到你被他伤害后，你就会拥有那份追索的权利。而他ﷺ越是这样做，你也就越爱戴他ﷺ，他ﷺ也就越能被民众和真主所荣耀。
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